女人一定要有钱

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<font face="Times New Roman"></font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">前一阵子，「女人要有钱」这本书卖到缺货，不仅女人在看，男性读者中也十分抢手，作者是美国主妇茱蒂</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">?</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">瑞斯尼克，她强调：「女人要青春，要美丽，要遇见好男人，更要有钱才会幸福」。女人从来不替自己的未来生活做打算是很危险的事。</span><font face="Times New Roman">
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                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">作者在书中一再对妇女洗脑：「聪明的女性寻觅的是一个温馨和充满关怀的伴侣，而不是长期饭票。」，她说：女性必须体认到，白马王子早在</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">50</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">年代就绝迹了，而且职场不是一个公平竞争的地方，如果女人完全依赖别人，可能导致个人健康和财富的损失。</span><font face="Times New Roman">
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                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">茱蒂说：女人应该尽早开始投资和储蓄，起步越早成功的机会越大，越年轻开始充实</span><font face="Times New Roman">
                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">这方面的常识越有利，在能力范围内牺牲物质享受，学习精打细算，为未来做准备，不要甘于贫穷，才能拥有真正的自由，当然，绝对不可为了金钱而不择手段。</span><font face="Times New Roman">
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                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">高职毕业的台湾名女人何丽玲，曾经在一次访谈中说：「我很小就明白，美貌和理财是女人一生最重要的事」，她提到她的祖母告诉她：「女人读书成绩差一点没关系，但是一定要懂得理财」。她在八岁时，祖母就开始训练她理财观，丢给她一本帐簿，</span><font face="Times New Roman">
                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">教她如何记帐，账本里有两百多个互助会名单，这个国小二年级的小女生，开始跨出理财的第一步。</span><font face="Times New Roman">
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                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">何丽玲也说过一句发人深省的话：「女人能年轻多久？可以无忧无虑多久？身为依赖成习的女性，有时候我们该思考，如果有一天发生意外状况，我有没有能力自给自足？</span><font face="Times New Roman">
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                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">总有一天我们必须靠自己想办法过日子，只有自己才能保障自己的未来」，因此，女人要有钱，并不是要追求享乐，而是生命的尊严。</span><font face="Times New Roman">
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                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">她说：「如果女人懂得理财，懂得独立，人生就是妳的，女人无法在厨房中要求独</span><font face="Times New Roman">
                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">立，学会理财才是追求独立自主的基础」。何丽玲在职场和情场的成功，不是没有道理的。</span><font face="Times New Roman">
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                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">有些女性认为理财是男人的事，懒得伤脑筋，也有些女性害怕自己太能干，而得不到男人的爱，但现实生活里，看到许多例子，懂得财务规划的夫妇，婚姻比较幸福，会理财的妻子也比较能够得到丈夫的欢心，身为一般妇女的父兄或师长，为什么不能趁早指导女性学习金钱观念，如同教育她们举手投足像淑女一样。　　</span><font face="Times New Roman">
                        <span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">　　</span><font face="Times New Roman">
                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">一位男性友人心有戚戚焉的提到「可口可乐总裁」说过的一句话：「我们每个人都像小丑，手中玩着五个球，这五个球是：工作、健康、家庭、朋友、灵魂；而这五个球只有一个是用橡胶做的，掉下去会弹起来，那就是工作。另外四个球都是用玻璃做的，掉了，就碎了。」</span><font face="Times New Roman">
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                </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';;">事实上，在不景气的年代，连工作都是玻璃做的。唉！有时候觉得，在动乱的时空下，生涯规划往往赶不上变动，提供家庭经济来源的男性都感受压力沉重，更何况是处于经济弱势的女人呢？</span><font face="Times New Roman">
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                        <span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></font></p><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">　　当然</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">新时代也要求女人应该有一种豁达的胸怀</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">一颗包容的心</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">.</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">面对感情</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">再爱与被爱之间</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">不管结果如何</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">都应懂得尊重对方的选择</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">,</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-hansi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: ';Times New Roman';; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">同时让一粒友谊的种子在彼此间生根发</span><a href=[[[SQ]]][[[http://www.yhnr.cn/Dispbbs.asp?boardid=30%26ID=14003%26replyID=36540%26skin=1]]]></a>

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<font face=\"宋体\"> 忘了在哪本书看过，但内容印象深刻。笔者是一位女性，她的父亲曾教她如何当一个女人。她被带到高级俱乐部，去看那些女人如何和她的父亲相处。最后，她结婚了他的另一半没有情妇，只有她一个女人。</font><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
                <span lang=\"EN-US\"><p></p></span></font><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">　　她学了什么？</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
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                </font><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">她学会了如何打高尔夫，如何评鉴美酒；她会了温柔聆听；她学会了表达自己的意见；她学会了摄影；她学会了舞蹈；她学会让自己高贵美丽；她学会经营自己的事业。</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
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                </font><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">她不取悦男人，但男人喜欢她。她不是情妇，却叫人难忘。女人，经营自己，情妇，也会输给妳。</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
                        <span lang=\"EN-US\"><p></p></span></font></p><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;\"><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">　　</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
                </font><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">曾经在一件Ｔ恤的背面看到一句我一辈子都不会忘记的文字：「占老婆的缺，做情妇。」无奈的人性，聪明的女性，幸福！是要靠用心经营才不会消失的。</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
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                </font><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">女人一定要有钱</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
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                </font><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">再穷，也要去旅行！《圣经》说：「不要太贫穷，否则会丢了神的脸。」</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
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                </font><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">我说：脑袋决定你的口袋，口袋里的自由，决定你一生的幸福，也决定你脸上的笑容。</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
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                </font><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">「白头偕老」已经快要成为神话的现代社会，女人拥有一张长期饭票的机率越来越低，当婚姻破碎了，金钱纠纷很容易导致男女双方恶言相向，受害的一方往往是女人。</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
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                </font><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">即使婚姻幸福的女人，也有机会单独面对现实人生，因为妇女普遍比男性长寿八到十岁，年轻守寡的事也时有所闻。</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
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                </font><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">在职场上，女性普遍比男性处于劣势，女性收入普遍比男性低，即使同工也不同酬，女性换工作的频率也比男性高，公司裁员多半先裁掉女性员工，显然，女性比较不容易领到退休金，就算领到退休金，也少得可怜，因为，男性总是将低微的工作分配给女人做。　</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
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                </font><span style=\"FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: \'Times New Roman\'; mso-hansi-font-family: \'Times New Roman\';\">年轻的时候，女人觉得这一天永远不会来临，总是很乐观的认为「船到桥头自然直」，女人总是逃避现实，缺乏居安思危的观念，不愿意去想倒霉的事，等到问题发生了才烧香拜佛，祈求上苍眷顾，帮忙降福改运，其实，女人如果尽早学会理财，为没有依赖的日子做好准备，命运可以掌握在自己手中。</span><font face=\"Times New Roman\">
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